First, you have to realize that I grew up in a small (s-m-a-l-l) town in northwestern Pennsylvania. The census taker reported 290 citizens way back then and it hasn't grown much since. No black folks lived in our town.
My father occasionally served as the substitute mail carrier for our post office which served a long rural route. Sometimes he would let me ride along in the little, green, one-seated coupe he drove. It had a rumble seat, but he didn't let me ride back there.
One of the families who lived on his route was the Johnsons. When he would get near their farm, he would tell me "Get down. If they see you, they will steal you!" Of course, I would peak. When they noticed that Dad had put something in their mailbox, some children on the porch who would run down the lane to get the mail.
Dad hustled right on down the road. I didn't know why he would tell me such a story, but I believed him. He was my Dad.
Movin' on.....
My grandparents lived on a farm about two and a half miles out of town. The Johnson family lived on a farm in the same township. When it became haying time, my Grandpa and Mr. Johnson helped each other. They probably shared other farm jobs, too.
I remember one time when Grandpa asked Mrs. Johnson to make a birthday cake for Grandma. When he went to pick it up, he took me and my little brother with him in his old Willys Knight. As we walked into her kitchen, Mrs. Johnson picked Ernie up exclaiming, "What a nice little fellow!" Grandpa smiled and Ernie started screaming. It scared the beJesus out of him as he had never seen a black lady.
I know Grandpa would never take us anyplace where there would be harm, but I am sure I stayed out of the way. I was very curious. The big kitchen was lived-in comfortable. Several children peeked around doorways...just observing. Grandpa asked if she had the cake ready and Mrs. Johnson pointed to a bushel basket on the kitchen table. Grandpa lifted me up so I could see...Oh! A magnificently decorated cake barely fit down inside. Grandma would be so surprised. I figured Mrs. Johnson must be a supreme baker; I think Grandpa thought so, too.
Movin' on again.......
When I attended Townville High School, there was a Johnson child in every grade. They rode on the school bus that brought farm children into town to go to school. Buses came from several directions to bring the students who had graduated at the small, one-room schools in the Townships.
It was no big thing to have Wesley in my classes. He was accepted and treated as "just another student." It wasn't until we graduated from the senior class and went on our class trip to Detroit via a lake liner from Cleveland that we faced segregation. It was a shock to everyone when the bus driver took Wesley to eat somewhere else. The "class" was to have dinner at a big restaurant in "The Village." I don't think any of us enjoyed that meal.
The same thing happened the second evening. No explanation could assuage our consternation. I can only imagine how he felt.
By then it was 1942.....The BIG WAR was on and young men were being drafted or volunteered for the armed services. The Johnson boys went along with all the rest. When Wesley received his orders, he was to report to Camp Shelby, Mississippi. He was scared half to death...he didn't know how to behave like a "southern nigger." He was sure he would get killed just going there...but he didn't. Somehow he coped, served his time, and came back to civilian life ready to make something of himself. He built bridges in many places in our country. He is the only member of our class that I know of who ended up a wealthy person.
When I was back home for my 60th class reunion, I went to visit Wesley and his wife, Bessie, on their farm. They are enjoying their retirement. He raises fish in a large pond, cares for lovely green acreage around his home and outbuildings, and travels. Once a year, he flies to an adventure of his choice...Bessie is handicapped and afraid to fly, so she stays at home. They maintain "the good life," and their children are involved in worthwhile pursuits.
1942-1945.....
Going to college, I met one black girl whose goal was to become a teacher. I don't remember being in class with her, and since I lived in an off-campus house, I didn't see her often. I never got acquainted with her except she did sing in the our choir...all girls, as there were only two fellows (4F's) on campus. When we graduated teachers were in high demand. I hope she achieved her goal.
Movin' on.....
For three years, I taught school in small towns where no black folks lived. I also was married and moved to Pittsburgh, PA. There, I worked for Dunn & Bradstreet which was an all white company. My husband graduated from Diesel Mechanics School and we applied for jobs in Alaska. I was offered a position in Nome; he was turned down.
We moved back to my hometown where he worked at the lumber mill; I worked at the slaughterhouse outside of town, then at the zipper factory in Meadville. There were some black workers but none nearby my station or in the office where I became a stenographer. I also managed to get a divorce. Then I flew to Germany to marry my Army sergeant, a relationship fostered during the War.....and things changed.
One evening soon after my arrival in Bad Kissingen, we joined several other Army fellows and their girlfriends at a night club. I will never forget hearing the ompah band start playing and couples getting up to dance. A few black soldiers were there with German girls...white German girls. When I saw their black hands spread across the white blouses of their partners, I faced cultural shock. My curiosity arose and I asked my friend Betty, a Dutch girl who was going with our Mexican Battery CO, "How come?"
She replied, "The black soldiers will give those girls whatever they want. They are very generous."
Two years later when we were on our way home aboard the General Maurice Rose, we had a mixture of all races and colors. I met a red-headed lady from Austria who had married a black soldier, the son of a minister in a town near my home. She told me she intended to divorce him as soon as she was in the U.S. He was her ticket out of Europe. I cannot imagine what that soldier's family would think of the whole situation.
I don't think she was the only one.
While we were on the ship, we had several life-jacket drills. One red-headed soldier had a black wife and adorable child. They kept everyone in stitches with their humor. For five days, we rode through Hurricane Hazel and a lot of passengers never left their cabin. We thoroughly enjoyed a laugh.
Movin' on again.....
In the Army family, you meet folks of every color and ethnicity and you treat them with respect and consideration. Here at Batteries B and C, I played the organ for the Sunday services conducted by our black Chaplain. Chaplain Calbert became a close family friend. Since he grew up in the Baptist Church and I grew up in the Methodist, sometimes he would announce the hymns by saying, "Today we are going to sing a Methodist (or Baptist) hymn" with a smile on his face and a twinkle in his eye. Then there was a Chinese chaplain whose family owned a restaurant in San Francisco. When my son, Bryan was born, he sent us a pot of shark fin soup that was delicious.
Chaplain Calbert retired in Washington, D.C. We visited him and his wife on two cross-country trips. His mother was instrumental in getting Allentown, CA, "a town founded by black folks," named a National Treasure." I have visited the site and camped in the campground there.
The next stage of my life was in the midst of a human rainbow. The schools of Fairfield were once designated as the most racially balanced in our country. I spent twenty years as a teacher in this district. Many students made an everlasting impression on me through the years.....the Asian girl who literally wore a dictionary tied to her wrist and went on to become a leader in ROTC.....the students who were so far behind in their reading skills...Asian, black, white, Latino...who tried so hard to catch up and did..... the young black student who blew the competition away in the Middle School Spelling Bees.....the boys who wanted to have a basketball team to represent Sullivan Middle School but needed a teacher to sit with them in the gym...I did, and they ended up champions.....the black girl who won a writing contest was thrilling.....the black boy who had a mother who was a scourge on the office, and who was bent on disrupting my classroom. After some serious discussion, he agreed to trade "sitting on top of his desk quietly" and good, non disruptive behavior for my peace of mind and a calm classroom. It worked. There were students of every race and color who went on to make worthwhile contributions to society. I wonder where they are...what they are doing...today.
As a teacher, a black lady became a good friend as well as "the teacher across the hall." Her son sat with my sons when I needed someone. We shared teaching projects. We were friends in and out of school. Unfortunately, she has passed on to her reward.
On a personal level, when I became solely responsible for my home and my sons, I needed help. A black man came looking for work. I was not in a very good mood, so I outlined everything I needed someone to do. He quietly answered, "I can do that." And he did. He became and has been my best friend for twenty-some years. We have a mutually caring relationship. He has added a wife and adorable daughter to the mix and it is wonderful.
He also rescued me when I started out on my last "big" adventure...to pick up The Lewis & Clark Trail in southwestern South Dakota and follow it out to the Pacific Ocean. I got to the Nevada – Utah border, fell, and broke my arm. He is legally blind, but he sent his brother by air to Salt Lake City, by bus to my location, to drive me and my RV back to Fairfield. He is my "black angel."
A black neighbor who has the soul of an artist, helps out when he can. I appreciate that he cares. He gives a soothing pedicure for a reasonable fee. We visit and share jokes. He is trying to understand my son's "Raw Food" diet...quite a stretch as he is a very good cook in his own style. I appreciate his friendshiip.
For some reason, wonderful people have come into my life. I know angels have been looking after me my whole life...the one God assigned at birth and many others. Presently, my white son and friends and black friends are doing what they can to take care of me. I am blessed.